Showing posts with label birthmother. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthmother. Show all posts

Monday, May 19, 2008

A Day Well Spent


Recently I had the great privilege of spending the better part of a day at the headquarters for the Gladney Center for Adoption in Fort Worth, Texas. With 8 regional offices across America, Gladney is one of the oldest and largest maternity homes and adoption agencies in the United States. Through the years they have created homes for more than 27,000 children and assisted more than 36,000 birth mothers.
I am not sure where or how to begin describing this beautiful campus, but let me try. I toured the maternity center which can house up to 30 birth mothers at a time in dorm style living (2 per room). During my visit 21 women were receiving assistance. Gladney is able to house women as young as 12 years old.

Their maternity home truly sets the standard for the nation in terms of housing for birth mothers. The facilities are much like a park; fresh, well manicured, beautifully decorated - just like anyone would want their home to be.

The outer appearance is not all that takes Gladney’s attention however. The women they serve are priority number one. In these safe surroundings women are able to focus on their physical, mental and spiritual state of being. They have access to a fully equipped gym and outdoor swimming pool, they have personal responsibilities in cleaning their rooms and preparing evening meals, and they are able to attend weekly Bible Study as well. The staff makes sure residents are transported to and from school each day. Everything Gladney does is meant to fully serve the birth mother’s needs in a supportive atmosphere while she creates a plan for her baby’s future.

Another component that makes Gladney unique is its visitor center. In a museum like setting, one can take time to explore the history of adoption as a whole and the history of the Gladney Center for Adoption which was started by a Methodist missionary minister named I.Z.T. Morris. This museum is state of the art and offers a one of a kind experience.

I was deeply moved to walk into their blessing chapel where babies are kissed, blessed and then placed in the loving arms of their new forever families. How this must please God’s heart; to see lives saved and families created. It took my breath away. Once again I was reminded that adoption affects generations….

The thing that strikes me most about Gladney is their commitment not only to the birth mothers and the adoptive families that they serve but their commitment to seeing adoption understood within our society. They actively promote education and provide services that illustrate the benefits of adoption.

I want to express special thanks to Scott Brown, Heidi Cox, Judy Canon, Jennifer Lanter and the great staff in Fort Worth for making my visit so memorable. For more information on the varied services Gladney provides please visit their website.

Shown in photograph are Heidi Bruegel Cox, Julie Stobbe & Judy Canon

Monday, March 3, 2008

On the Airwaves with Story Corps.


Today I had an amazing opportunity to spend quality time with my birth mother, Alyson. We were invited to record our adoption story in San Antonio, Texas, with Story Corps. which is part of National Public Radio (NPR). Their mission is to honor and celebrate people’s lives through listening. The stories they capture are stored in the Library of Congress so that future generations can listen and learn. http://www.storycorps.net/

It was of particular of interest for Alyson and me to return and record our conversation in the Alamo City because this is precisely the spot where our story began. As a pregnant teen, Alyson lived in the maternity center at Methodist Mission Home (MMH) for about three months. She was one of the first residents to live in their brand new facility in 1968. Oops, I slipped! Now you know how old I am...but how great to return to the MMH campus in 2008 to the very blessing chapel where my parents held me in their arms and dedicated me to the Lord at the tender age of three days old. Only this time, at nearly 40 years old, I was standing beside the woman who gave me life and who created a home for me through adoption. The moment was intensely humbling and quite gratifying.

After wrapping up our interview (which took place right beside the Alamo) we headed to El Mercado to feast on the fine cuisine served at Mi Tierra! All I can say is, "Bring more salsa, tortillas, and pecan prailines." What a fine way to wrap up our day.

OLE!!