Saturday, June 20, 2009

Father's Day Bike Run

More fun than you can shake a stick at. That's my summary, but for the rest of civilization, here is a more detailed account.

We congregated early at San Jacinto Harley-Davidson and enjoyed the roar of each bike as it pulled up near the registration tent. It didn't take long before there was a decent sized group of people as the 19 riders, many with passengers, gathered around the registration tent, ready for the ride briefing. Instructions were shared, and we learned that we had an EMT and a nurse in the group, which was a gift from God given that the heat index was going to creep up past 100 degrees. We prayed and thanked the Lord for the beautiful day and the breeze, and asked for safety as we rode. John Skipper, a Harley-Davidson representative who had helped with registration setup, assisted us out of the parking lot by stopping the traffic, and off we went... the long way round to San Jacinto Monument.

It was amazing how all of the traffic lights were in our favor, and cars would pause at stop signs allowing all bikes to go through. My husband, the pack leader, Bud, commented how it was Jesus that had led us through those lights and stop signs, and how he felt like Moses parting the Red Sea. If you've seen Bud's beard you'll be smiling too!


Once at the monument, everyone relaxed, refreshed, and took a trip to the top of the
monument. Then the second part of the ride took us via a scenic route to Sagemont Church where we ate lunch, listened to praise and worship by the Aric Harding Band, and held the door prize draw and raffle. Everyone received a door prize ticket, and we gave an extra ticket to dads in honor of Father's day. Four people were pleased to receive the $25 Harley-Davidson gift cards for door prizes, and Eric Wold was the proud winner of the Harley Davidson mirror raffle.

It was a strange feeling standing up there in sweaty bike clothes with a dusty face talking to an audience about the ministry of Act of Life, but nobody, including myself, cared about formalities. It was an informal gathering of good people, who were interested in hearing about how lives can be saved through advancing adoption awareness.

Everyone seemed to enjoy the ride - I know I did! As the pack sweeper staying at the back of the pack, I got to see the sea of bikes in front of me. I don't mind saying I had a big grin on my face for much of the ride. :)

Act of Life would like to thank...

... San Jacinto Harley-Davidson for their excellent support, including facilitation, and the donation of gear. A special mention goes to Carrie Graves of Stubbs Harley-Davidson for the great communication and assistance with getting this off the ground. Also to John Skipper who supported us on the day of the ride.

... Sagemont Church, who have continually supported Act of Life, and in this instance made a special exception in opening the Youth Building for our use on a day that it should have been closed.

... Aric Harding, Chris and Jeremey who volunteered their time to bring us praise and worship.

... Bud LeCompte, for planning and mapping out the excellent route, and leading the pack on the ride.

... Tom Ehman, for going the extra mile (or 20, at least!) to provide water and snacks for the pack at all stops and helping with registration.

... All of the riders and passengers who participated. Your participation brought financial support to the ministry of Act of Life, a vital element that allows us to continue to be effective.

I sign off, tired, still grubby, but with warm fuzzies about the excellent day that we had.


Praising God, looking forward to my bed,
Lynda

Friday, June 12, 2009

A Life Saved, Making It All Worth While

Dear reader,

It is with great joy, and a refreshed spirit, that I would like to share this incredible story of a life saved.

One of my personal favorite outreach activities with Act of Life is being able to go and talk to young ladies at LifeHouse Maternity Home about adoption as one of their parenting choices. These precious girls are all experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and have chosen life for their babies. They may be choosing to parent, or they may choose to make an adoption plan; either way, they are in a safe, Christ centered home for the duration of their pregnancy, and have time to think about their parenting choice and the future for their baby.

Recently, a beautiful young lady shared with me how this was her second time in LifeHouse. With her first pregnancy, she had considered her options, and with the help of Act of Life's adoption resources - the green and yellow cards - she had decided to make an adoption plan for her baby.

When she told her parents about her decision they were not in agreement as they thought she should have an abortion, and that they would be taking her to the clinic. The parents did not believe what the young lady had to say about adoption - the truths that she had learned from the Act of Life resources. The parents continued to be adamant that abortion was the best solution.

It was only when the young lady gave the green and yellow cards to her parents to read for themselves, that they were able to absorb those adoption truths and have a change of heart. They finally agreed that they would support their daughter with her adoption plan!

Not only was I blessed to hear this incredible story of a life saved, but also delighted in pouring over photographs of this precious child, that were taken prior to him being placed in the arms of his new family.

Just as sometimes we wonder if we are being effective in our sharing the gospel with others, we also wonder if we are effective in our life-affirming missions. God knows exactly when we need encouragement, and is faithful to show us the fruits of our labor - just when we need to hear it!

Praising Him,
Lynda

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Texas Life Connections

Texas Life Connections is a dynamic coalition of life-affirming organizations from across our state. They are hosting a mini-conference at First Baptist Church Euless Saturday July 18 from 9-4. This is a link to their flyer and this is a link to their registration page.

Here is a wonderful low-cost opportunity (only $20!) for volunteers of pregnancy resource centers to gain excellent training as well as to receive refreshment for their spirits. New TLC Executive Director, Dr. Julie Parton, is organizing the event and has lined up some great topics for general sessions and breakouts. Act of Life will be presenting on adoption.

Perhaps you know of a pregnancy center in the Dallas/Fort Worth area that can make use of this information. Please forward this note on to your friends and colleagues so they will have the chance to go. It is sure to be a great event!

For Him,
Julie

Friday, May 15, 2009

More Americans “Pro-Life” Than “Pro-Choice” for First Time

... Also, fewer think abortion should be legal “under any circumstances”

This article is an amazing demonstration of the paradigm shift that is taking place in society regarding the sanctity of human life.  Could it be that the more a topic is discussed and debated, the more truths about the topic will surface, thereby allowing citizens to draw more informed conclusions?  I truly believe that is the case.  Many of us were disheartened at the dawning of the new U.S. administration, however, it is becoming crystal clear that, as always, the Lord's plan is perfect.  He knows what we as a society need to go through in order for the truth to prevail.

The encouraging news of more Americans being pro-life goes hand in hand with what Act of Life is witnessing on the ground.  As one of many pro-life ministries based in the greater Houston area, we are humbled and blessed to be part of a greater whole.  The Christian Agencies for Pregnancy and Adoption (CAPA) are working together to support life-affirming parenting choices.  It is amazing how life ministries are coming together to collaborate on outreach projects, touching more and more lives.  While strength in numbers is not necessarily a biblical concept (correct me if I'm wrong!), a wall of truth is a force to be reckoned with.

As more and more people accept the truth about God's heart for the sanctity of human life being from conception to natural death, we are also witnessing repentance and turning to Him for healing and forgiveness.  

Sagemont Church has just released the second part in a series for their Real Life TV program about the sanctity of human life.  Topics in this episode include abortion, adoption as a life saving parenting choice, and abortion recovery.  After the panel discussion is a closer look at Room 104; the abortion recovery class that is facilitated by Sagemont Church member, Khristey Walker, Executive Director of Pasadena Community Pregnancy Center, TX.  We are quick to tout God's heart for life, but must remember there are hurting hearts and souls of women who have had an abortion, who may feel there is no hope of healing.  Some may have been hurting for many years.  The good news is... there is hope, in Jesus Christ alone. 

Working together, in His service,
Lynda

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Chat Room with Christian Women Today

Adoption Chat Room with Christian Women Today

People look for adoption information in many places. One such place is the Internet. A wealth of data can be obtained using a keyboard and screen in the privacy of one’s own home and after regular business hours.

We recently had the opportunity to partner with Christian Women Today (CWT), a ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ Canada. Over the past decade I have had the great pleasure to work with these dedicated ladies on a variety of projects and can assure you of their effective ministry to women. One of the interesting ways they work is through Internet Chat Rooms.

A chat room is a unique place where women can log on, maintain anonymity and seek answers to questions they may be anxious to ask in traditional settings. May 4th was all about adoption. Here is what Rosemary DeFrancis (CWT chat moderator) had to say:

"Tonight we were privileged to have as our guest, Julie Stobbe. Her compassion and wisdom concerning adoption and teen pregnancy were so well received. Julie really ministered to the ladies in the room and the comments afterward were very encouraging. The chat was filled with 16 women from across North America and I know it helped those who were seeking healing and guidance. Thank you, Julie, for caring."
The Holy Spirit knows no bounds and women could sense the freedom He had to move and minister to women’s hearts. In fact, a woman named “Lisa” became a Christian because of the chat room conversation and experience. How beautiful to be discussing earthly adoption and then learn of Lisa’s spiritual adoption ~ all because women gathered in a chat room on a Monday evening!

“Hey Mrs. Julie, I heard you had been praying for me. I was a non-Christian and the other night, women from the cwt-forum led me to the Lord. There had been several people witnessing to me but I just wasn't ready. I just thought I would share that with you. Love, ‘Lisa’.”
We are thankful to have been a part of collaborating with Christian Women Today and seeing the harvest of an orphaned soul finding her forever home with God through salvation in Jesus Christ. What could be more gratifying than that??

Full of thanksgiving,
Julie

P.S. Be sure to tag the CWT chat site so you can visit ongoing chat topics.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

What Are The Origins Of Mother's Day?

There are several accounts of the origins of Mother's Day in the U.S.A., but what I can be sure of, and what I am about to recount to you, is the origin of Mother's Day in my home country, dear old England.

Mother's Day in England was founded by my great grandfather, John Alexander Whitehead.   You may be as surprised as I was when I discovered this during some research into Whitehead Aircraft, the aircraft company that was founded by my great grandfather during WWI.  As an aviation enthusiast, I had always been excited about the fact that my great grandfather's factory had built many of the Sopwith Pups that were used in battle during WWI.  

About 20 years ago, my research unearthed a newspaper article from 1916, clearly outlining the origin of Mother's Day and how John Alexander Whitehead wanted to, first of all, honor his own mother, and recognized the need to honor the mothers of soldiers and sailors who were away from home, serving their country in what was to become known as the Great War. 

So, on the very first Mother's Day in England, held on Tuesday, August 8th, 1916, while sons were unable to be with their mothers, Mr. & Mrs. Whitehead 'adopted' a few hundred mothers and entertained them all with a fantastic lunch and wowed the crowd with an aerobatic display overhead.  August 8th was chosen as it was the birthday of my great grandfather, a flamboyant character to say the least, who would have enjoyed such a huge celebration on his birthday, even though it was for the moms!  On a side note, my father, also John Alexander Whitehead, was fittingly named after his grandfather as they shared the same birthday.

The Mother's Day article from 1916 has been reproduced on the Whitehead Aircraft website, along with another piece on the subject, and photographs from the 1917 Mother's Day outings.

Now that I have shared this little piece of Mother's Day history with you, and I prepare to retire for the evening before waking to a wonderful mother's day of my own, I would like to wish all moms a very happy and blessed Mother's Day!

In Him,
Lynda

Mother's Day Blessings

Phones will be ringing and florists will be delivering record numbers of bouquets this weekend since Mother's Day is Sunday. How are you planning to spend this day set aside to celebrate mothers everywhere?

Mother's Day will most likely bring up all sorts of emotions. For those of us with young children we look forward to homemade cards and perhaps piles of pancakes for 'breakfast in bed'. For others, Mother's Day may be marked with sadness due to a mother who has passed away during the previous year.

I particularly enjoy celebrating Mother's Day because I have two women to honor. My first mother, my birth mother, who gave me life and provided a family for me through adoption and my permanent mother who walked beside me each day of my life and reared me into adulthood. They are two very different women, but they are my two heroines! While I have inherited certain biological characteristics from one, I have acquired learned characteristics from the other.

However you choose to spend Mother's Day I pray you will pause to remember the birth mothers who are rarely remembered on Mother's Day. These courageous women make life possible for their children and create stable homes in the arms of loving mothers who will care for them on a daily basis. I also hope you will pause and remember the adoptive mothers who have opened their homes to children who are not born of their flesh but have been born from the love of their hearts.

No Mother's Day would be complete without the opportunity to ooh and aah a little. So, take a peek at this video which illustrates mothers come in a variety of packages. Whether a child is born into or brought into a family does not matter. Whether the child looks like the mom or not has no bearing on his or her value and place within the family. The love of a mother remains the same.




Mothers love children. It is just what they do.
Happy Mother's Day,
Julie Stobbe